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What would you like to change?

You may want to grow in your career, feel closer to someone, make new friends, or find more time for yourself.

Start with a situation that feels like your life. You can choose more than one.

Explore your situation

Find a question for your day

Open a situation that feels like yours. Pick one concern, pause on the question, then choose a short read. More than one may fit.

No score, sign-up, or answers to send. Just a place to start thinking.

I am a student

Choices after school, less pressure to keep up, and time for friends.

I want to choose my next step

Which choice fits the kind of day you want to have?

Think about your next step

I want to feel less alone

Where could you see the same people often enough to get to know them?

Read about making new friends

I want time for friends while I am in school

What do you keep saving for after the next exam?

Read about enjoying your life today

I want to start what I keep putting off

What is one part you could do today?

Read: Why do I keep putting things off?

I am building my career

To grow at work, be seen for good work, and choose a path that fits.

I want to grow in my career

What does 'doing better at work' mean to you right now?

Read about doing better at work

I want to speak up in a hard talk

What do you need the other person to understand?

Think about the talk you keep putting off

I want to stop feeling behind

Would you want the daily life that comes with someone else's next step?

Find a path that fits your life

I lead a team

A team that works well together and time to stop thinking about work.

I want my team to work well together

What might your team need to tell you, but find hard to say?

Read about helping your team do its work

I want to handle tension with someone

What needs to change after the talk is over?

Prepare for a hard talk

I want to be there when I get home

What is still pulling your mind back to work?

Read about listening to the people you love

I am building or running a business

A business that grows, help with the work, and time for life outside the business.

I want the business to need less of me

Which tasks could someone else learn to do?

Look at what your team needs from you

I want more time with my family

When the workday ends, are you still thinking about work?

Think about being there at home

I want time for life outside my business

If you take on more work, what will you have less time to do?

Read about the time your business takes

I care for a home or for other people

Help with daily tasks, time with people you love, and time for yourself.

I want some time that is mine

What part of your own day keeps getting pushed aside?

Read about finding time for yourself

I want us to talk without the same fight

What is the one thing you most need the other person to hear?

Find a place to begin a hard talk

I want to feel close again

When did you last have time together with no screen or task between you?

Read about time with people

I am retired, or getting ready to retire

Days to look forward to, people to share them with, and ways to stay involved.

I want to decide how to spend my time

What would you like to do with the time you have now?

Explore a new stage of life

I want people to spend time with

Where might a shared interest become a reason to meet again?

Read about making new friends

I want to enjoy the time I worked for

What small thing would make today feel well spent?

Read about enjoying your life today

My life has changed

A way forward after a change, things to enjoy, and people to spend time with.

I want to know what comes next

Which part of your old routine do you miss, and which part do you not?

Read about a change in life

I want to change the work I do

Are you looking for a new title, a new kind of work, or a different kind of day?

Think about your next move at work

I want to make new friends

What do you enjoy that could put you alongside other people?

Find a starting point for meeting people

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Read the book

The Tricycle Way is Sanjog Aul’s book about the life we build and how we live it each day. His own mistakes are part of the story.

Find out about the book.

Read and reflect

Short reads about work, home, the people around you, and what comes next. Start with a question you recognize.

Choose a short read.

Meet the person behind TTW

Sanjog shares the mistakes he made as work took over his days. His book grew from what he had to change.

Meet Sanjog and learn about TTW.

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